Record Breaker : How A 13 yr Old Girl Climbed Mountain Everest

A 13-year-old daughter of poor Indian
farmers who became the youngest girl to
climb Mount Everest said Wednesday that
she “shed joyful tears” at the summit after a
grueling climb across difficult terrain and
personal fear.
Nepal requires climbers to be at least 16
years old to scale its peaks, but Malavath
Poorna said she and a team of Nepalese
guides climbed the 29,035-foot mountain on
May 25 from the northern side in Tibet.
There are no age restrictions in China.
“It was very difficult. Every step is a
dangerous step,” a smiling Poorna told
reporters in New Delhi, describing steep
slopes, exposed rocks, deep crevasses and
extreme cold that went below minus 40
degrees Fahrenheit.
At 10,830 feet, she said she saw “six dead
bodies. I was shocked. Oh my god I got
some fear.”
But she remembered her training and
regained her confidence.
“When I reached the top of Everest, very
good experience. I feel great and proud, and I
shed joyful tears” as she looked around and
saw “mighty mountains and morning
sunlight,” she said in English, waving her
hands expressively as she spoke.
The climb was verified by the China Tibet
Mountaineering Association in Lhasa, making
Malavath the youngest girl to climb Everest.
American Jordan Romero, from Big Bear,
California, became the youngest boy at age
13 to reach the summit – also from the
Tibetan side — in 2010.
Malavath said her parents, impoverished
farmers from the southern state of Andhra
Pradesh, encouraged her during eight months
of training despite the fact that she had
never before been on a mountain. Her family
are dalits, once known as “untouchables,” at
the bottom of India’s ancient caste system.
The expedition was sponsored by the Andhra
Pradesh Social Welfare Residential
Educational Institution Society as part of its
program to encourage and help
underprivileged students in India.

#PresidentialMediaChat: List of Top “Awkward” Quotes From Mr President

Just in case you missed the Presidential
Media Chat last night, the quotes from Mr
President below should give you some clue of
how it went.If you are still wondering why
#AmericaWillKnow is trending on Twitter
since yesterday, then you have to scroll down
fast to the second to the last quote which
Nigerians have tagged the “funniest” quote
of the year! These are answers to some of
the questions raised!

”If I exercise 40/50% of my powers,
Nigerians would say I am a dictator. Some
African leaders who used only 60 were
condemned as dictators”
“People have been confusing corruption with
stealing. If public officers steal money they
term it under corruption….”
”PDP is the champion. We are the ones
holding the belt. We are waiting to see the
challenger”
”The popular Nollywood wasn’t captured in
the assessment of the economy as Africa’s
strongest’
“I assure you that we will get the girls out
but we can only do it with the co-operation
of their parents and guardians.”
”Over 70% of what they call corruption in
Nigeria, is mere common theft. The word
corruption is being abused, it’s just mere
theft.”
“Even when I’m in church I am monitoring
what is happening. Anytime I get reports of
an attack somewhere… my face will change
immediately… my expression will change. It
used to happen every Sunday
“Anytime I hear of any one Nigerian dies I
feel pained… even if it’s a Boko Haram
member – I am their president.”y.”
“Pakistan terrorists have been fighting
terrorism for over 10 years now so it’s not
something that a 6 months State of
Emergency can solve.”
“The Petroleum Minister has appeared before
the Parliament for over 200 days… in the
Nigerian Parliament you’ll agree with me that
there is more politics than work.”
“If Sanusi hadn’t been suspended he would
have come up with a different figure… If
anyone steals $50 billion or $20 billion
anywhere America will know, they will tell
you where it is; it is their money.”
“I don’t know where they are… there is no
confirmation of the location of the
schoolgirls, you are a journalist, you know
more than me.
Do you think Mr President has a Clue?

Song Theft : Between Upcoming Artiste “Ewa” And Tuface Idibia!!

A new upcoming artiste, stage name Ewa
has found herself in a controversy concerning
a song “Crazy Love”. The song which Ewa
claimed Tuface featured in did not actually
have Tuface.In fact, Tuface camp has
released a statement sayinh Ewa stole the
song from Tubaba
What Tuface Camp released below
“ The single is an illegal manipulation and
super-imposition on 2Face’s unreleased song
titled ‘ Could This Be Love ’. This odious and
fraudulent act is not only condemnable but
also an assault to the integrity of the
entertainment industry which thrives on
creativity and hard work.”
The press statement further threatened that
2Face “shall employ the full force of law to
enforce the breach of his reproduction,
publishing, performance, communication
rights which have been breached” based on
the “Copyright Act Cap C28, LFN 2004.”
When Ewa was contacted for her side of the
story.According to a scoop we obtained from
NigeriaFilms website, this is what she said
below
“We can only apologise because 2Face has
the right to the song and we were under the
impression that it was an opportunity for us
to buy the song (from him), but that (later)
wasn’t the case,”
“The matter has been resolved between both
parties,”
When asked if 2Face was in the studio with
Ewa, the rep said,
“no, he (2Face) was never in the studio with
us. We only used his part (voice) on the
song, (which) done by the producers we
worked with. They are actually our
producers.” But when pressed to mention the
names of the producers, he said, “I can’t
mention their names, I am sorry about that.”

BBA Star Dillish Mathews Returns To Nigeria With Sexy New Photos

The BBA Winner has got some love for
Nigeria, she is back to Abuja for business
according to what we scooped!

Fashola Arrests Students Over LASU Protest

The Lagos State Government has arrested 10
students of the Lagos State University
(LASU) for protesting increment in tuition fee.

Recall that students of LASU on Tuesday
embarked on protest in Lagos and were
marching to Alausa, the seat of government
to register their displeasure of the way and
manner the state government was handling
the issue when they were disbanded by the
Nigerian Police Force.
President of Student Union, LASU, Mr.
Nurudeem Yusuf told journalists in Lagos
that the students were arrested after the
peaceful protest by members of the Nigerian
Police Force. He said some of the students
were detained at Area F and Akinpelu Police
Station, Oshodi.
Speaking to our correspondent in Lagos,
Public Relations Officer of the Lagos State
Police Command, Ms. Ngozi Braide said the
students were arrested for embarking on
violent protest and for threatening to burn
down Oshodi.
Another student who confirmed the incident
said eight students were arrested. He gave
the names as Olamide Bolarinwa, Oludare
Olayinka, Victoria Oni, Timilehin Fatukasi,
Babatunde Bolarinwa, Taiwo Ajaye,
Olatimihan Taiwo and Segun Akani.
We gathered that the eight have been
charged before an Ikeja High Court.

Nigerian Artistes And Their Worth

If it is all about making money, Nigerian
artistes are very good at it. From
endorsements to shows and gigs, The money
is still flowing.
Who says Nigeria is not blessed? Check out
the worth of the Artistes in the Country at
the Moment


Born Innocent Idibia, the former member of
the band, Plantashun Boyz, is said to be
among the richest artistes in the industry.
With two platinum records in his kitty, Tuface
is speculated to be worth about N550m.
It comes as no surprise as he has had
endorsement deals with brands like Guinness,
which earned him N20m and Airtel, which
earned him N22m. He was also said to have
earned N30m from the producers of Phat
Girls movie, and charges between N4m and
N5m for shows.

What Is Wrong With this Photo [There Is God O Edition]

Western fashion is going gaga, African fashion
is going south!

Peter PSquare Slams Tiwa Savage's 'Wanted' Music Video Critics, Compares Tiwa With Nicki Minaj & Beyonce

So many celebrities before now have shown
their support for Tiwa's 'Wanted' music
video. Peter Okoye has just lended his voice.
Peter called Tiwa's critics hypocrites, that she
hasn't even come close to the 'craziness' Nicki
Minaj and Beyoncé recently exhibited and the
hypocrisy comes flying from all corners. His IG
posts continue below:

Exclusive Photos: President Jonathan attends groundbreaking ceremony of Ayo Oritsejafor's University

President Jonathan was in Delta state earlier
today to attend the foundation laying/
groundbreaking ceremony of Pastor Ayo
Oritsejafor's University, Eagle Heights University
in Omadino, Delta state.
Pictured above are Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, his
wife pastor Mrs Helen Oritsejafor, Gov of Delta
state Emmanuel Uduagha, the Olu of Warri and
others. See more photos below:

Beyoncé’s Pastor Defends Her Image from Christian Critics

Do you think Beyoncé‘s videos and songs are
overly sexual? Her Pastor speaks on criticism.
Queen Bey, her parents Tina and Matthew
Knowles, as well as her best friend Kelly
Rowland , have been members of St. John’s
United Methodist Church for a long time.
Global humanitarian and author Rudy Rasmus is
a co-pastor at the church. In 2008, he joined
Jay Z and Beyoncé in holy matrimony.
He says the power couple’s relationship is
stronger than ever. “They’re friends. Their
relationship is healthy and life has been good.”

In an interview with The Grio , he speaks on
criticism from people including Christians, for her
explicit lyrics and videos.
“Beyoncé is a consummate entertainer, and an
entertainer entertains.
Is the entertainer’s entertainment an expression
of that person’s life and reality? I don’t know.
But I know when Arnold Schwarzenegger straps
on a 30 caliber cannon and blows planes out of
the sky, nobody asks the question, ‘Arnold why
are you walking around for those 90 minutes in
that suit with that 30 caliber cannon? What kind
of person are you?’ I don’t think I’ve heard that
question.
But at the end of the day, Arnold
Schwarzenegger is an entertainer.
I think a person has the right to earn a living in
the way that they are gifted, and I think that she
is tremendously gifted and I think she expresses
that gift in some amazing ways.
I think the world would be void an extreme
talent if we silenced her or censored her.”

TB Joshua is the Only Pastor Acting Like Jesus –Prophet SoulE

SoulE is not just a musician again, he is now a
prophet and dishing out prophecies. He said he
is not surprised that many are finding it hard to
believe his prophecies, saying many did not
believe Jesus Christ too. In this chat with
Nigeria Films, SoulE speaks on very interesting
issues. Read what he said below:
Are you in support of ministers of God with
private jets?
My bro, prosperity is of God, but I will be the last
to talk against any man of God. I think people
should just serve God and forget about people’s
wealth. There is one man of God I love with all
of my heart and I can say he is the only person I
see that behaves like Jesus even if so many talk
against him. I love him; I am not a member of
his church but I love him. His name is T B
Joshua.
You once gave out a prophesy that before the
end of 2015, two governors will die, is it really
necessary for them to die or better to change
their ways?
(Laughs). I gave it last year and the Kaduna
State Governor died few weeks after. I just obey
the voice of God whether people like it or not. I
do what He says, not what people want to hear.
One thing is sure, I don't speak when God has
not spoken.
What do you think is the reason people don't
believe your prophesies?
Well to answer your question, I am Prophet
Emmanuel Ifechukwude people know me as
prophet Soul E. I am not called for everyone, I
am call to nations not just Nigeria. When my
master Jesus was on earth, people did not
believe him and with all he did, they still killed
him. So, it’s expected that some people will not
believe. It does not bother me and it does not
change the fact that God is using me for those
that believe.
Well-spoken prophet. Now, with all your
revelations, why is it that some of it are yet to
come to pass eg, the WizKid and Davido’s
case? When God speaks through his prophet, it’s
a warning to those who are involved. Like I said
about the two guys and we have been praying
for the protection of God over their lives. So, we
are happy that they are strong and still doing
what they love doing, I will not be happy if we
lose another act again, so we are praying.
You said you do not know Davido and WizKid,
but as an artiste, you still have the opportunity
of meeting fellow colleagues in the industry. So
why not bring them closer to advise them? I am
not an artiste, I am a minister the gospel, I am a
Prophet, not the Soul E you guys used to know.
So mine is to pass the word to whosoever God
sent me to. Yes, I don't know them one on one;
we are not friends neither are we close. So, I
have passed the message. He that has an ear
will hear and get closer to God.
You claimed not to be an artiste, but you still
sing and your latest song 'Thank God’ is still
making waves
Yes, I sing but I am not an artist, I am a
minister. I don't do music because I want to be
known, I do music because I want to minister to
lives and bring them back to God. That's what
makes me different.
Enlighten us more, do you own a personal
ministry, or you worship in another church?
I don't run a church for now, I do ministry except
the Lord asks me to, but for now, I do programs
here and there. We storm cities, nations, doing
prophetic healings and meetings. The name of
my ministry is called ‘The Kingdom Builders
Assembly.’ The Lord gave me a mandate to raise
men and women for him. So, we build and raise
men for the kingdom.
What about the collection of tithes, is it a right
thing or an obligation?
Spiritual things are not for babies’; paying of
tithes is biblical and if you want to be great in
life, you will obey that instruction.
As a prophet of God, why haven't you received
the a revelation about the Chibok girls?
I don't follow the crowd, why should I say what
God has not told me? If he tells me anything
concerning the girls, I will tell it to the world.

The 50 Million Naira Debt Story Between Duncan Mighty and Governor Amaechi

River state Governor, Rotimi Amaechi may
have landed himself in a new rift, this time
around not with Patience or Goodluck
Jonathan but with a popular Nigerian singer
Duncan Mighty.The singer is accusing Gov
Amaechi of owing him to a tune of 50 Million
Naira.
Could this be true? Below is how TheNetNg
reports the story
Duncan Mighty has accused Rivers State
Governor Rotimi Amaechi of owing him N50
million. In a lengthy statement released on
June 2, 2014, Duncan Mighty (real name
Okechukwu Duncan) said the once tranquil
relationship he had with the Rivers State
number one citizen has been thrown out the
window. According to singer, the Amaechi
and his cabinet contracted him to organize a
celebrity ‘Youth Endorsement Concert’ in
Port Harcourt in March 2011, for which he
was given N10m upfront.
The concert is said to have featured the likes
of Flavour, the defunct Mo’Hits Records
crew, Banky W, M.I, Ice Prince, Timaya,
Stereo Man, Terry G, Jesse Jagz, DJ Jimmy
JATT, alongside stand up comics I Go Die, I
Go Save. ‘In pursuit of the said project, I
thereafter raised funds through different
sources, including personal savings, loans
and credit facilities, acquired operational
vehicles and branded them for the project,
procured several souvenirs, printed many
publicity materials, paid for venues, engaged
musicians from different parts of the country,
undertook logistics such as flight/
Accommodation/Transportation and welfare’,
he said in the statement.
Duncan Mighty says the project was
concluded as scheduled and ‘results were
achieved’ but since then, it has proved
impossible to get his money back. Wene
Mighty has also denied benefiting financially
from the Rivers State Government, despite
rumours of him being favoured by Governor
Amaechi. ‘
The rumour mills have it that the Governor of
Rivers State has given me juicy contracts
including all manner of flashy cars, but I
stand here today to debunk such tales,
because I have not received as much as a
bicycle spoke from Governor Amaechi’, he
wrote. Why is he going public after all this
while? The singer says he is forced to do so
because he hasn’t been able to meet with
the Governor, despite all his efforts. NET
reached out to the Rivers State Government
for a response but is yet to receive a reply…

Senate panel blames Jonathan for illegal N685bn spending

The Senate Committee on Finance has said that
President Goodluck Jonathan should be blamed
for the unilateral spending of N685.910bn by the
Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation on
kerosene subsidy in 2012 and 2013.
The committee which probed the alleged
$49.8bn missing oil money, said Jonathan set
aside a directive by the late President Umaru
Yar’Adua in 2010 that kerosene subsidy
payments should be stopped.
It added that the President defended the
disbursement of the whopping sum by the
NNPC without appropriation by the National
Assembly.
In the report which was obtained by our
correspondent on Monday, the committee noted
that Yar’Adua stopped the subsidy payments
because Nigerian masses were not the
beneficiaries.
The committee lamented that Jonathan’s
decision to set aside the directive by Yar’Adua
made the Federal Government to spend
N353.3bn in 2012 and N332.5bn in 2013 on
kerosene subsidy payments.
It said that Nigerian masses bought the
kerosene above the pump price during the
periods under review.
The report stated that the “amount may exceed
this (figure quoted) because certification by the
Petroleum Products Pricing Regulatory Agency
between August and December 2013 was an
interim one”.
It added, “Mr. President (Jonathan), having
publicly defended payments of kerosene subsidy
clearly shows that the said Presidential directive
by the late Yar’Adua had been set aside by the
current President.
“Therefore, it (kerosene subsidy payment) is not
a unilateral action of any individual (in the
petroleum agency). However, it remains
unconstitutional since it is not appropriated for
by the National Assembly.”
The report further stated that investigations
revealed that the Federal Government spent
N965.4m every day in 2012 on kerosene
subsidy and N908.5m daily in 2013.
The N685.910bn, according to the report, is part
of the $20bn to be accounted for based on the
submission of a former Governor of the Central
Bank of Nigeria, Mallam Lamido Sanusi.
The report noted that Jonathan’s action was
contrary to Section 80 (2), (3), and (4) of the
Federal Republic of Nigeria constitution (as
ammended), which stipulates that, no money
shall be withdrawn from the Consolidated
Revenue Fund of the Federation without the
approval of the National Assembly.
The committee therefore asked Jonathan to
prepare and present to the National Assembly, a
supplementary budget to cover the N685.910bn
spent by the NNPC without appropriation for
kerosene subsidy.
It further noted that since no amount was asked
for kerosene subsidy in the 2014 budget, the
NNPC should not make further deductions in that
regard.
The committee also recommended the
immediate stoppage of the subsidy regime both
on petrol (pms) and kerosene (DPK).
The report added, “The Ministry of Finance and
Ministry of Petroleum Resources differ on
position of subsidy on kerosene.
“The Coordinating Minister for the Economy/
Minister of Finance, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala,
testified that she had not authorised any
payment/expenditure of subsidy on kerosene and
that there was no budgetary provision for it.
“The Minister of Petroleum Resources, Mrs.
Diezani Alison-Madueke, also agreed that there
was no budgetary provision for subsidy on DPK
(kerosene) but noted that her ministry continued
to make payments for it in the overall interest of
the masses.
“Mr. President, in his media chat on February
24, 2013 aired on the Nigerian Television
Authority and other television stations, defended
the deductions for kerosene subsidy.
“There is therefore, the need for the subsidy
regime to be totally discontinued with. However,
all stakeholders should be consulted and carried
along as much as possible before abolishing the
subsidy.”

Men No Longer Come For Us Like Before ––Prostitutés Cry Out

Some commercial séx workers in Bauchi State,
northern Nigeria, have expressed their concern
over decline in the number of men who patronize
them following insecurity in most of the
neighbouring states. Some of the few popular
spots such as Ogbonna Hotel, Focus Brothel,
Time Out, Peoples Club and Benco Hotels are
also recording very low patronage as a result of
the insecurity.
According to Vanguard, owners hot spots and
brothels around some major streets within the
metropolis have equally lamented the low
patronage from clients who usually engage the
services of the séx workers.
Two séx workers at Bayan Gari, a Bauchi
metropolis suburb, said since the bomb
explosion in Jos last month, most of their
rich clients who are predominantly visitors
had not been coming to the state again.
Boko Haram is spoiling their business. lol!

5 Igbo Men Supplying Arms to Boko Haram Caught Red Handed

Who is really benefiting from this Boko Haram
madness? Why will some Nigerians from the
South East go all the way to supply arms to
Boko Haram in the North for them to continue
killing? Revelations continue...
Some men from Imo State, who were heading to
the North, were intercepted in Nsukka, Enugu
State, by men of the Nigerian Army as they were
travelling in disguise with a bus to their
destination.
One of the army officers who spoke to
reporters under anonymity disclosed that a
Police Corporal also serving in Imo State
Police Command was involved in the dirty
arms deal.
The army officer said: “When we asked the
occupants of the vehicle to come down, we
discovered a police corporal in uniform
among them. The corporal on getting down
pretended to be pressed; he later ran
away."
Items recovered from the suspected Boko
Haram arms dealers include 40 AK47 magazines,
4 boxes of AK47 live ammunition, 100 pieces of
live cartridges, Mopol khaki and charms
concealed in a cap.
The men have all been handed over to relevant
security apparatus for appropriate action.

Nollywood Director Accused Of Theft And Assault

Nollywood director, Vincent D Anointed has
been accused of theft and assault by a
Canada based Nigerian, Steve Ugo. Mr Ugo
posted details of the incident on his
Instagram page recently, saying he hired
Vincent D Anointed concerning a movie he
planned to produce and upon Vincent’s
advice, came to Nigeria to seal the deal, but
was held hostage by Vincent and three of his
friends, who seized his belongings and asked
for N700, 000.
He further alleged that the director persuaded
him during one of their chats via Facebook,
to send some money into his account so he
could book the actors.
‘Am still reposting because I and my friend,
Chukwudi went through hell at Delta Park
Hotel Asaba, Nigeria, the day we went to
meet @Vincentdanointed. Heaven even
Demons itself must bear me witness that my
purpose of going there was to discuss with
this dude how I can produce my first movie
which was my main reason of going to
motherland africa.
Am so grateful to God I never paid in 1200$
he told me to pay in so that he will book the
actors and actress I need. He advised me to
increase the money to 2200$ so that I will
be able to get more faces in my movie, I told
him I will come down shortly so we can write
the synopsis first, which we accepted
They were four of them that locked me and
my friend up at Delta Park Hotel, Asaba
Nigeria, Vincent D Criminal, Emmanuel
Onuma, Emmanuel Onyemulu and Chinedu
Aniekwe. Emma Onuma later calmed down
when the beating was going on and started
pleading for our release. Vincent D Boss
literally refused, dude eye was red that day.
Vincent the director of Red Mafias and
Obioma the Slave Girl stole my iPhone 5 and
belongings (sic)‘ he wrote. Meanwhile, the
film maker has denied all allegations. While
speaking with Gbenga Bada of Movie
Moments he denied even knowing Ugo; ‘I’ve
been seeing those posts and I keep
wondering how someone I don’t know would
be doing such.
I take it as nothing if you say you were
abducted and robbed, why didn’t you report
to the police. At least I’m not someone you
cannot have access to….I don’t know the
person and I guess whoever he is, he’s only
looking for cheap publicity‘ he said.
Vincent D Anointed is a member of the
Directors’ Guild of Nigeria

Boko Haram Latest Attack At Beer Parlour In Mubi, Adamawa Killed 60

Boko Haram terrorists on Sunday bombed a bar
and brothel located near a major military base in
Mubi, Adamawa State. Preliminary reports
disclosed that at least sixty people died in the
attack.
Two security sources in the area told
SaharaReporters that a horrendous explosion
rocked the bar and brothel which usually teems
with civilian and military patrons. The explosion
happened close to 6 pm. Nigerian time, both
sources said. One of our sources said none of the
casualties was a soldier, but the other stated that
it was too early to determine whether any of the
dead were soldiers.
The bombed facility is a short distance away from
the headquarters of the Special Operations
Battalion (SOB) of the Nigerian army in Mubi. The
battalion is at the center of the Nigerian
government’s counter-offensive against Boko
Haram’s increasingly daring attacks on military
and civilian targets.
Soldiers based in Mubi frequently join civilians to
eat, drink and dance at the watering hole, our
sources said, adding that military commanders
generally warned soldiers not to stay at the joint
past 4 p.m.
In recent weeks, Boko Haram has carried out
deadly attacks in the northeast Nigerian states of
Adamawa, Borno and tone, despite the Federal
Government’s declaration of a state if emergency
in the three states.
[Source: Sahara Reporter]

SEE The Difference Between Making Love and Having Séx

Making love or having séx, are they the same
thing? How do I differentiate love making from
just having séx? This nature of questions comes
up frequently from spouses and proffering
answers to them may sometimes get all the
parties confused if not well explained.
Basically, making love is when lovers are deeply
in love with each other and indulge in all form of
passionate séx, while having séx may just be
about experiencing érotic pleasure down there.
But oddly enough, both are very necessary in any
marital relationship.
Almost always, ladies say they like making love
simply because it involves lots of touching, long
sénsual foré-play and the like; while many men
can’t help but say they like having séx. However,
gender generalisation may really not be true
because many men prefer love making to having
séx.
Although, making love and having séx may sound
similar, there’s a big emotional difference...

While making love involves the feeling of love,
the spouse connection, love doesn’t really have
to enter the equation when it comes to having
séx. When couples have been in a relationship
with each other for few months or years and they
are deeply attracted to each other, such partners
are probably making sweet love every time both
of them get into bed. Making love is far more
relaxed and slow paced than just having séx. It
brings with it all the hot pleasure of séx and
each time these two emotions come together,
the pleasure would definitely be more intensified.
And the best part about making love is that
there is more room for communication, deep
sharing and prolonged foré-play. Both partners
would not only be comfortable with each other,
they will be aware of each other’s moves and
deepest desires, that naturally may not surface
when having séx.
In one word, séx is just a perfect fusion.
But when it comes to having séx, it is usually
triggered off more from object of attraction,
boiling arousal, séxual famishment, long
abstinence, and prolonged denial. Foré-play is
usually skipped; this type of séx is usually fast
and furiously done in the car, under the shower,
on a road trip, in a private office, at a friend’s
place… anywhere secure and at least semi-
comfortable! In this type of séx, you just want to
have it to quench your arousal-hunger and
endless torture and you wouldn’t care about
awkward positions or cramps and sprains until
the deed is done. While having séx is more of a
pure carnal satisfaction, yet both make séxual
intimacy in marriage spicy.
Sometimes, just having séx with your husband or
wife can be more fun than making love. At the
start of a marital relationship, it’s the séxual
attraction that makes making love feel so séxy.
But when couples make love all the time and
avoid having fast, quickie and furious séx, the
hot rush of passion may start to drop because
neither of the partners is focusing on séxual
attractiveness and triggers.
It is not uncommon that both may be deeply in
love with each other yet séxually unsatisfied due
to lack of what can be called the attraction.
Sometimes, this may even lead to loss of lib-ido,
lack of séxual desire, weak er-éction and some
org-asms challenges.
You can still experience the best love making in
séx and even stay loyal to each other while both
of you exchange hot quick ideas and séxual
thoughts while having séx.
Time of love making helps séxual romance to
bloom; it gives room to communion well and
also helps activate the mind while creating
fantasies and imagination together. Spouses can
even create new and exciting séxual memories.
Time of lovemaking is time of pure openness; it
allows you to say what you are thinking and also
makes you to talk like you’re having an affair.
The séxiest way to talk freely with your partner
is when you are most relaxed; it helps you to
fantasise about passionate moments. In any
successful relationship, couples need a perfect
blending and balance of making love and having
séx. So therefore, when a spouse feels like his or
her partner is not emotionally connected in bed,
that is not the moment to fret.
At times, just having séx can be a good thing
too, just as long as you look for ways to bring
lovemaking back into the bedroom now and
then. Balance the equation; make love, have séx.
The combination can be super!
By Funmi Akingbade